Archive for the ‘Kids Acting-out’ Category

Is It an Adolescent Phase—or Out-of-Control Behavior?

Wednesday, February 17th, 2010

Why do parents often say, “Oh, it’s just a phase; my teenager will grow out of it”? I think there is often a sense of denial that parents have when it comes to their teens’ acting-out or destructive behavior. When you’re a parent, it’s very troubling and sad to think that your son or daughter [...]

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“I Love My Child…But Sometimes I Can’t Stand Him!”

Tuesday, January 19th, 2010

You’d do anything for your child, but you feel guilty about admitting the truth, even to yourself—sometimes you don’t like him very much. It’s a secret that many parents of acting-out kids share, but rarely confess to anyone. James Lehman explains how dealing with a difficult child can take its toll on the parent-child relationship, [...]

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“Anger with an Angle”: Is Your Child Using Anger to Control You?

Thursday, January 14th, 2010

Have your child’s angry outbursts worn you down so much that you’ve simply learned to give in? You should know that this is not a phase or a behavior that will “just go away on its own.” Read on to discover 5 things you can do to stop your child from using “Anger with an [...]

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Out of Control Behavior: Should I Medicate My Child?

Monday, October 19th, 2009

The recent death of a four-year-old Massachusetts girl from an overdose of medications for ADHD and bipolar disorder has brought the issue of medicating children for behavior problems to the forefront of public consciousness. While this sad case shows the extreme end of the issue, it reminds us of the fork in the road many [...]

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Are You Afraid of Your Acting Out Child? Part II: 7 Ways to Get Back Parental Authority

Monday, September 21st, 2009

In part two of this series, James gives you 7 ways to get back parental control and stop living in fear of your child’s acting-out behavior.
Most people aren’t afraid of their children; rather, they’re afraid of their child’s behavior. It’s important to understand that this fear undermines your authority as a parent because it’s hard [...]

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