Archive for the ‘Parenting Teens’ Category

Passive-Aggressive Child Behavior: Hidden Anger in Kids

Thursday, April 1st, 2010

Does your child take forever to get up, eat breakfast and do his homework and chores? You nag, threaten and repeat yourself, but he still doesn’t seem to pay attention to anything you say. Here, James Lehman explains the passive-aggressive ways kids control you—and how they use it to avoid responsibility.
Passive resistance is when kids [...]

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Is It an Adolescent Phase or Out-of-Control Behavior? 8 Ways to Manage Acting-out Kids

Friday, February 26th, 2010

I think it’s important for parents of acting-out teens to ask themselves this question: If your teenager is abusing you verbally, calling you disgusting names and punching holes in the walls, what kind of husband or father do you think he’s going to make? Unless something dramatic happens, people stay on the course of the [...]

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No Means No: How to Teach Your Child That You Mean Business

Friday, February 19th, 2010

I think a lot of parents feel it’s important to explain their reasoning to their children in an attempt to get them to understand. Realize that along the way, wanting your child to understand can easily shift into wanting their approval, or their acceptance of your reasons. When this happens, parents can get stuck in [...]

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Is It an Adolescent Phase—or Out-of-Control Behavior?

Wednesday, February 17th, 2010

Why do parents often say, “Oh, it’s just a phase; my teenager will grow out of it”? I think there is often a sense of denial that parents have when it comes to their teens’ acting-out or destructive behavior. When you’re a parent, it’s very troubling and sad to think that your son or daughter [...]

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“Why Is Everyone Always Mad at Me?” Why Misreading Social Cues Leads to Acting Out Behavior

Friday, October 23rd, 2009

Does your child often perceive himself as being right when he’s wrong and wrong when he’s right? Some children have a hard time picking up on other people’s expressions, body language or social cues. These kids are often prone to thinking they’re being disapproved of or disliked when they’re not.
 
Understand that reading social situations is [...]

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