Archive for the ‘Sibling Rivalry’ Category

Sibling Rivalry: Good Kid vs. Bad Kid

Friday, August 21st, 2009

Frequently, I receive calls on the Parental Support Line involving sibling rivalry conflicts. An important thing to remember is that sibling rivalry is a normal emotional state in children. Children compete with each other for their parent’s approval and affection. In fact, adult children still can feel competitive about their parents’ attention. One of our [...]

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“F— You, Mom!” How to Stop Your Child from Cursing in Your Home

Wednesday, July 15th, 2009

Don’t pick up that bar of soap yet! James Lehman, MSW has great advice for parents on what to do when their child has a foul mouth, from generalized cursing to verbal abuse.You: “Why didn’t you do your homework?”
Your child: “I hate f—— school. I hate my f—— teacher.”
You: “Don’t talk to me like that!”
Your [...]

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The Lost Children: When Behavior Problems Traumatize Siblings

Thursday, June 25th, 2009

Q: What do the other children in the family experience when they have a brother or sister who’s hostile or acts out chronically?
James:
It’s traumatizing when something hurtful happens to you, and you can’t control it, you can’t stop it, you can’t predict how hurtful it’s going to be, and you can’t predict when or [...]

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Siblings at War in Your Home (Declare a Ceasefire Now)

Monday, May 18th, 2009

Sibling rivalry is normal in families with more than one child. It becomes a problem when one child bullies or dominates the other. It’s also a more complex issue than it first appears. On the surface, you have two kids who are “at war”—who bicker constantly and don’t get along. There can be many reasons [...]

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