Archive for the ‘Stop Backtalk’ Category

The Disneyland Daddy: A Case Study

Wednesday, June 10th, 2009

Vicki is the single mother of Alex (12), Ryan (8) and Jessica (6). To make ends meet, she works two jobs—as a receptionist during the week and part-time catering on weekends. She has been divorced from Mike, a supervisor for a building contractor, for two years. Her relationship with Mike is strained at best, hostile [...]

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Top Annoying Teen Behaviors: Eye-rolling

Monday, June 1st, 2009

Most everyone who’s ever been a teenager learns at some point how to irritate their parents to distraction. From eye-rolling to back-talking, teens have a seemingly endless supply of habits that push parents’ buttons. Recently, Empowering Parents asked our readers what the most annoying teen behaviors were, and the answers came pouring in from frustrated [...]

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Help! My Child is “The Constant Interrupter”

Friday, May 29th, 2009

Does your child interrupt conversations with the words, “But Mom…” or “But Dad…” ? Do they constantly cut you off mid-sentence to tell you that something’s not fair?  
Interrupting comes from a variety of sources, including over-stimulation, competition with siblings and peers, impulsivity and general family patterns of communication. It’s helpful to pinpoint what combination of [...]

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Eliminate “Shut up!” from Your Family’s Vocabulary

Wednesday, May 27th, 2009

 For many families, the “shut up”  response is an “A-side/B-side” issue. Here, James Lehman MSW tackles the problem from both perspectives, and shows you how to eliminate it from your family’s vocabulary.
“Shut up!”  What to do when your child says it to you:
If your child tells you to shut up, the best thing to do [...]

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Does Your Child Say This? Translating the Secret Language of Acting-Out Kids

Tuesday, May 26th, 2009

When kids act out, they have an arsenal of comments they fire at you in order to put you on the defensive—a secret language that’s designed to win them control and absolve them of responsibility. If you take those comments at face value—or take them to heart—you’ll always be on the defensive, constantly reacting to [...]

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