http://www.meanager.com/blog/child-outbursts-why-kids-blame-make-excuses-and-fight-when-you-challenge-their-behavior.html Teens and Parents resources. Wed, 08 Feb 2012 14:41:34 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 http://www.meanager.com/blog/child-outbursts-why-kids-blame-make-excuses-and-fight-when-you-challenge-their-behavior.html/comment-page-1#comment-224 Teresa Thu, 01 Apr 2010 03:30:11 +0000 http://www.meanager.com/blog/?p=487#comment-224 16 year old son was acting out, smoking, huffing, and extremely disrespectful. He is extremely intelligent but not making passing grades due to just refusing to do the work. Lazy won't even take out the trash once or twice a week, room a disaster. Always has mp3 player attached to him even when sleeping. Finally we sent him to military style boot camp and school. Within 6 months he was different kid. Now he says yes Mam or yes Sir opens doors for me and ask if I need any help with things. Now takes responsibility for him actions and it matured him into a young man. Best thing his father and I could have ever done. Now talking about becoming a police officer we are so proud of him for the changes he has made. 16 year old son was acting out, smoking, huffing, and extremely disrespectful. He is extremely intelligent but not making passing grades due to just refusing to do the work. Lazy won’t even take out the trash once or twice a week, room a disaster. Always has mp3 player attached to him even when sleeping. Finally we sent him to military style boot camp and school. Within 6 months he was different kid. Now he says yes Mam or yes Sir opens doors for me and ask if I need any help with things. Now takes responsibility for him actions and it matured him into a young man. Best thing his father and I could have ever done.
Now talking about becoming a police officer we are so proud of him for the changes he has made.

]]> http://www.meanager.com/blog/child-outbursts-why-kids-blame-make-excuses-and-fight-when-you-challenge-their-behavior.html/comment-page-1#comment-223 Tina Wed, 31 Mar 2010 19:56:26 +0000 http://www.meanager.com/blog/?p=487#comment-223 my son is try fail the 8th grade on purpose in a rebelling way and does not respect my rules. He trys to over rule me. he start argument with me and I challange he aggressive which he is not take responsibility for his homework because his teacher has ciontracted me about him not turning it in. I have tryed to give him consequence of his action with punishment to make him do better in school. I have to tryed to reward him and tryed show him how it make me feel, what the future will be if he doesn't change his attitude but he think it ok not to try in school. He use to love school, then after surgey he hate school , stop trying in school & not turn in homework, starts argiment with me that he going to do what he wants to do. My husband think ignoring this problem and it will be ok or go away. I think we need to hsandle by him understand he is wrong by commucation to him of how he need to change his behavior but when I try he make me angry. Help my son is try fail the 8th grade on purpose in a rebelling way and does not respect my rules. He trys to over rule me. he start argument with me and I challange he aggressive which he is not take responsibility for his homework because his teacher has ciontracted me about him not turning it in.
I have tryed to give him consequence of his action with punishment to make him do better in school. I have to tryed to reward him and tryed show him how it make me feel, what the future will be if he doesn’t change his attitude but he think it ok not to try in school. He use to love school, then after surgey he hate school , stop trying in school & not turn in homework, starts argiment with me that he going to do what he wants to do. My husband think ignoring this problem and it will be ok or go away. I think we need to hsandle by him understand he is wrong by commucation to him of how he need to change his behavior but when I try he make me angry. Help

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