No Means No: How to Teach Your Child That You Mean Business

February 19th, 2010

I think a lot of parents feel it’s important to explain their reasoning to their children in an attempt to get them to understand. Realize that along the way, wanting your child to understand can easily shift into wanting their approval, or their acceptance of your reasons. When this happens, parents can get stuck in [...]

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Is It an Adolescent Phase—or Out-of-Control Behavior?

February 17th, 2010

Why do parents often say, “Oh, it’s just a phase; my teenager will grow out of it”? I think there is often a sense of denial that parents have when it comes to their teens’ acting-out or destructive behavior. When you’re a parent, it’s very troubling and sad to think that your son or daughter [...]

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“I Love My Child…But Sometimes I Can’t Stand Him!”

January 19th, 2010

You’d do anything for your child, but you feel guilty about admitting the truth, even to yourself—sometimes you don’t like him very much. It’s a secret that many parents of acting-out kids share, but rarely confess to anyone. James Lehman explains how dealing with a difficult child can take its toll on the parent-child relationship, [...]

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“Anger with an Angle”: Is Your Child Using Anger to Control You?

January 14th, 2010

Have your child’s angry outbursts worn you down so much that you’ve simply learned to give in? You should know that this is not a phase or a behavior that will “just go away on its own.” Read on to discover 5 things you can do to stop your child from using “Anger with an [...]

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“Why Is Everyone Always Mad at Me?” Why Misreading Social Cues Leads to Acting Out Behavior

October 23rd, 2009

Does your child often perceive himself as being right when he’s wrong and wrong when he’s right? Some children have a hard time picking up on other people’s expressions, body language or social cues. These kids are often prone to thinking they’re being disapproved of or disliked when they’re not.
 
Understand that reading social situations is [...]

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